Sunday, April 8, 2018

Perfect Love Casts Out Fear (April 2018 Newsletter, Pastor's Message)


Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love. God’s love was revealed among us in this way: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us.

By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and do testify that the Father has sent his Son as the Savior of the world. God abides in those who confess that Jesus is the Son of God, and they abide in God. So we have known and believe the love that God has for us.

God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them. Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness on the day of judgment, because as he is, so are we in this world. There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love. We love because he first loved us. Those who say, ‘I love God’, and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars; for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen. The commandment we have from him is this: those who love God must love their brothers and sisters also.”
 I John 4:7-21

The tomb is empty!  The Lord is Risen!  The chocolate eggs have been eaten, and the Easter bunnies and baskets and bonnets stored away for another year.  While the liturgical season of Easter goes on for several more weeks, for many, the celebration of Easter is over. Where do we go from here?

The author of the passage above, which we will read on April 29, would answer our question in two ways.  First, we are to confess that Jesus is the Son of God.  And secondly, we are to “believe the love that God has for us” – a love God demonstrated by sending Jesus – and to act on that love by showing love to others.  The two are inseparable.  Our love for others is what makes our talk of resurrection believable.  Conversely, our lack of love for others makes our talk of resurrection unbelievable – which may in part explain why so many churches are empty.   If others cannot see love in our actions, as far as they are concerned, Jesus might just as well still be in the tomb.  If others cannot feel our love, they will not hear anything we may have to say; as Emerson wrote, “your actions speak so loudly I can’t hear what you’re saying.”

“God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them.”  If we “abide in love”, then love is the default setting in our lives.  We live in love as a fish lives in water.  Of course, this is easier said than done, and some individuals are very difficult to love.  Nobody abides in love perfectly, but if we have truly embraced the message of the resurrection, our lives are directed toward love.  We will get off track from time to time, but the more deeply the reality of the resurrection has become a part of us, the more quickly we can course correct and get back on the path of love.

The passage makes an interesting connection between love and fear:  “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love.”  While the author is speaking about fear of punishment from God, these words are also true in our relationship with other people.   As children, we may have loved our parents and yet at the same time feared their anger when we messed up.  But as adults, we cannot fully love someone whom we fear, and we will not fear someone we truly love. 

“Perfect love casts out fear.”  I believe this is God’s message for us in our day.  All day long, we are surrounded by messages of fear, from the news media, from politicians, from preachers who should know better, but have lost their way.  “Be afraid!” the news media tells us.   “Vote for me, and I’ll protect you from…(fill in the blank)”, politicians promise.  Fewer and fewer politicians, of either party, at any level of government, offer any kind of positive vision for the country or promise to do anything to make society better.   In these days, politicians mostly campaign on the basis of threats, on the basis of fear – “vote for me, or else the other party will take away……” and you can fill in the blank.   And we respond, because fear makes us easy to manipulate.  In the 1930’s and 1940’s, fear of “the other” – Jews, ethnic minorities such as Romani (gypsies), socialists, disabled persons, LGBT persons, among many others – led Germany and the countries it controlled to execute millions of their own citizens.  After World War II, in an interview in his cell during the Nuremberg trials, Herman Goering told his interviewer that “voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same way in any country.”   In any country, including our own.  Truly, to borrow a quote from the movie Dune, “fear is the mind-killer.” 

“Perfect love casts out fear.”  To abide in love is not to be a bliss-ninny.  We do need to be aware of our surroundings.  Jesus told his disciples, on their first mission, “I am sending you out as sheep among wolves, so be as wise as serpents and as innocent as doves.” (Matt 10:16)   But, even as we are aware of our surroundings, we do not have to be intimidated by our surroundings.  We do not need to cower in fear of our surroundings.   If we abide in love, we will see our surroundings through a lens of love, not a lens of fear.

After the crucifixion, the disciples met behind locked doors, for fear of the religious authorities.  According to John’s gospel (John 20:19-31), it was not until after Jesus appeared to the disciples – twice! – that the disciples left their locked room. 

The tomb could not hold Jesus.  The locked room ultimately could not hold the disciples.  Jesus calls us out of the tombs and locked rooms created by our fears, and into the warm light of His love.  While the celebration of Easter is behind us, the work of Easter – abiding in love – never ends.  Love is the gift of the resurrection to us.  Love is what will make the resurrection real to our neighbors.

See you in church –

Pastor Dave

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